I have friends and one niece with Moon/Cancer who are entirely emotional and often easily bruised, though they hide it well under their hard, decorative shells. I think that aspect makes you see what you want to see in the other person, but not what is actually there. But he is confused how I feel this way without needing anything. Ouch!We do not see clearly, we imagine things differently than they are, we trust, we assume, we are not working with facts but what we want to believe and feelings. http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=29420, http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=14081. It's like they can talk about everythng and anything and often don't even realize it. I felt this awful DREAD of him mixed in with the deep love longings that I held in my heart, and would just burst out CRYING whenever I felt his spirit coming near me. His Venus squares my Vertex. At least I know now that I'm not the only one spilling my water in the 12th house, lol. To the point it's hard to explain to others especially because we're no longer together. He said, he hadn't and he just hoped we could be good friends when he returned. I have had a couple of encounters in which I felt bad vibes but the others were unbelievably psychic and strangely accepting and confessional, I personally really like this house but I also know quite a few that have had very poor experiences, so the negative does need to be warned. You find yourself so drawn to them, and you will find them irresistible. How do you reckon you and him approach 12th house matters like spirituality, illusion, Neptune stuff? Posts: 15From: united statesRegistered: Jun 2013. and it was unreal and he sat down at our table and I felt like my entire body was on fire. Any help would be greatly appreciated.p.s., any planet people willing to share their experience with their planets in someone's 12th would also be appreciated, As far as who feels what.. it would make sense they both would feel it since one persons planet is being housed ( in a environment) therefore the planet is being influenced also by the house person in their approach and the others is bringing the energy influence. The 12th House!! The twelfth house by its nature is diffuse and undefined. I wish you lick with your 12th Houser, but there is a saying that 12th House connections are doomed to fail at least at one point. they have told me the same.one of them told me his feelings too late after i was already in a relationship and i met the other while i was in the same one. Posts: 1873. Lol. Right up to this year I have still been battling my feelings in re: to the guy I was totally swept away by. Also, yes this is definitely a karmic situation. It may not display this or other websites correctly. Im going through a bunch of Uranus and Pluto square transits right now and I have a very strong feeling this will not survive. Powered by Infopop www.infopop.com 2000 Venus in 10th House synastry indicates a kind of built in security since both partners feel comfortable with their relationship no matter where they end up geographically. My heart tells me he secretly feels the same way, but the 12th house can have issues of delusion, so only time will truly tell. inscryption cards. Neptune can be downright painful, intentionally or not, he's the master illusionist and we can easily get tripped up in fantasy that is not really real at all. You say hes your EX-best friend. Can you tell me whats really going on here? more than likely you will see, there is a very big reason:) Often they are a teacher when it's a good person, or you have something to teach them. what a selfish!so far i have involved in guys where my venus lied in their twelve house, it was love but felt like hidden agenda, holly crap! Often, there is a distinct feeling of mistrust in these scenarios, especially on the part of the planet person. Boy did WE clash, but seemingly there were no 12th House synastries between us. does the planet that falls in your 12th aspect anything else in your chart? And the worst part is I cant tell if hes going to be my salvation or my greatest self sabotage and final, complete ruination of my life. He was a cancer rising, Scorpio moon, sun in Gemini in the 12th. and in only one instance where the connection has lasted throughout many years with us now being friends, of sorts. It's strange that i always dream about him. Where you see Venus, you can expect things to have an easy flow. Lol. He never forgot and it almost feels like he is watching me closely on social media. Never felt this way in my life. Thats so commendable of you to always have a welcome for him in your heart. His sun, mercury, Neptune fall in my 8th house. I'm very new here so read at your own risk! For example, you may not be a needy person, but you find yourself being very needy or vulnerable around the house person. My Mars,North node and Pluto(in my DC) conjunct his Uranus and Saturn in the 1st house. The 12th house person often has difficulty seeing the true nature of the planet and in the extreme this person might actually encourage you to become your own worst enemy. I leave, but I always come back after a while. He has sun conjunct saturn and he also has it with me in synastry as well as my daughter. i do notice that if someone has 12th house moon and im also 12th moon, we mirror eachother. I also have met two men, 1 in the past and the other one currently that many of my planets fall into their 12th house. we are creepy to them, but cant seem to let us go. And with that 12th house influence and everything I read about Mars in 12th house I started asking myself if I should stay away from him. 12th house is about what you cant grab, so it applies to his affection as you perceive it. this also sounds a bit like my own synastry with a crazy Sun/Gem Moon/Sag man. Even when on partner likes the other one partner would not want to be seen with the other person for whatever reasons as in maybe wanting to keep their option open; definitely a "behind the scenes" situation. Then when I tell him, he has this quiet way of breaking through all the **** and getting to the heart of it, but in a really gentle way. In a way you don't care for.Look at your Sun & Saturn since that represents the father as well, with the way you feel look for afflictions. even when its painful between us this pull makes me want to continue with him so I did not want him to feel my pain yet he could and tried to finish things cos of itbut then we couldnt seem to leave them for more than 3 days anyway, Yep not sure what to call it a relationship, love,, obsession, infatuation, One good and beautiful thing between us which feels like the work of this placement is this soul journeying thing when we are physically together(i feel like when we are close its like we spark something off in each other which creates deep peace, ecstasy and brings us to feel our own souls thru each otherit is very healing)he says i relax him instantly. It never went fully public (as in, while everyone knew we were together, we never met our friends or family). Ive cut our contact channels. Ha interesting this 12th house isn't it? I've been rather busy these days but am always happy to answer questions:) The 12th house is about as mysterious and the afterlife! With the negative aspect, the "Plutonian" personality can show jealousy and possessive tendencies toward the "Venusian" one, trying . Am THANKFUL that it finally ended, but at the same time I value the lessons learned from our dance. He understands me in a very deep level. and yes check your saturn sometimes saturn can point to what you don't likebut then again it cam be good and make you feel comfortable with someomethats why overall picture of synastry is so important!!!!! And for that I am sorry you had to experience that. Sometimes it's strange and you can't make sense of it. No idea if I appear in his?! I have a very bad experience with someone's mars on my 12th house. I need help with my situation. This is a very private house, and it holds all of our self conscious fears, most of the time we don't like this house activated especially if this is a person that will use this against us.If the Mars person is selfish and self-serving, he or she may use their knowledge of your bad habits, blind spots and personality weaknesses to manipulate or hurt you. I can relate to most that has been said: Psychic, Fated, Spiritual, highly-accepting, Secretive & perhaps in ways obsessional/unrequited. I always wonder whether he has feelings for me or not. He was drinking often(neptune) and because of this we had frequent conflicts(square to venus). Maybe its fortuitous that it ended early for you, sweetie. Except when one of us is going through any kind of emotional crisis, then we're pretty physically demonstrative. It may not display this or other websites correctly. My sun, mercury, Venus and Jupiter conjunct his Pluto in the 12th. The first thing to . Spirtual, Telepathic, Emotionally, Karmic, & Soulful. Its been a year since we last saw each other and 5 months since we last spoke. Maybe we should all listen to our inner voices; intuitively we always KNOW who is bad or good. His sun falls in my 8th and his moon in my 12th where my sun is. . I would also like to know more about 12th house synastry, as I have my venus, mars and jupiter in someone's 12th house (he has no planets in there). and weirdly 12th house does later show the othher person to live in those shoes. I am fascinated by them, and the love I feel is otherworldly. Im so obsessed with him. Jupiter i Mars is aggressive by nature but the sign and house, and aspects made to him will alter how he plays out in synastry. I would even go so far to say that they may be SPs (sociopaths); these people seem to have a DEVIL deep inside of them . His Moon squares my NN. Cause he had to be free. Any info i'll share with you later. Venus is the Roman counterpart to the Greek goddess, Aphrodite, and she is the female counterpart of the Roman god of war and conquest, Mars, who is also the namesake of one of the big eight planets in astrology. My moon falls in someone's 12th house. Possibly. Double whammies. I mean your spirits are communicating with each other, that type of thing. I've actually read that in terms of unrequited love, the Venus person tends to love the 12th house person, but the house person can't return the love because the Venus person doesn't express their love clearly when in the 12th, and that love isn't recognized in order to to be returned. Its a bit of a puzzle, really, and I may not be explaining it clearly, but I do see what you mean, Elsa, in mirroring tendencies. Just a added general observation for everyone. During the night I could feel his eyes, some times resting on me. Please see special article on The 12th house synastry along with Neptune Moon Aspects for the descriptions will explain in greater detail. Sorry, Mr. Gemini . Now i know why. thus I didnt want to be like him. I, like YOU much prefer the beneficial planets:), I have someone venus conjunct my pluto in my 12th house . Some dont want to, ever. We had an affair that was hidden, even though I would have given everything to be with him full time. I have something of a business relationship with someone. Is your 12th house tenanted then? I can not understand entirely the situation just based on those aspects there is a lot to Astrology I would need to see all the charts in order to properly comment any further. I keep reading stuff about 12th house and its scary I already have issues but like I said my natal chart is already filled with 12 house placements like sun, mercury, Jupiter, and something else and now my relationship?! :) Would also love to read about Double Whammies in the 12th if you have any info. Sadly to say those attractions/connections do NOT work out well and the relationships are of short duration, for the most part. thanks for visiting! The 12th house is mysterious, magical, elusive, highlypsychic, spiritual, and the most interesting thing about it in synastry is that relationships with planets here tend to function mostly on a unconscious level, and even a whole other world entirely. The moment we talked I felt like I knew him since always, and when started shring some details it was like we had the same growing up, same ambitions (my Sun is in Aries, his in Capricorn). Only because I feel his Mars in my subconscious,yelling at me to do better and not understanding that I dont respond well to that. Your email address will not be published. Its like the subconscious need to help him grow as a person. The moon represents our instincts, our moods, our feelings and emotional responses along with how we nurture, feel nurtured, the wo North and South node connections in synastry are very powerful and often fated. I also faced this same situation from my present crush whom he married with the woman same as my first ex BF criteria. Anyone else care to share? I can feel him there within me and he seems to be aware of things that I dont want him to be eg. Venus Synastry in the Houses PATH-STROLOGY Utilizing Astrology to Find Your Path Home Natal Placements / Aspects Synastry Placements / Aspects Composite Placements / Aspects Planet: Sun Planet: Moon Planet: Mars Planet: Venus Planet: Jupiter Planet: Uranus Planet: Pluto Asteroids + Points Celebrities / The Infamous Past Life Astrology He might love you but in his own way. Thanks for the 12th house information. I never know what hes thinking, which is rare for me. Yes, assumptions is one thing that takes place a lot in this house. I dont think it was his fault he told me he was going through a lot and I know he was but he asked me be friends which I thought was friend zoning me but he has aquarius descendant and he told me to watch this movie afyer he asked to be fruends where the opening line was friends cant be friends and have sex and he said he wasnt done having sex. I can definitely feel the effects of his planets in my 12th, but in your experience is the planet person affected? A example of how the hidden fears thing of this house works is that we often will have a bad dream about something we are afraid of happening or suppressed anger, and and fear can bring us nightmares. Hi Aida! One is Taurus and the other is Libra. So, you can imagine what kind of connection this still is. Hi, 12th house placements are highly impressionable, they stay with you long after because it's a highly idealized house, be careful you can easily fool yourself. I have a venus in capricornso yes it is hard for me to let my feelings out..I don't expect to say I love youI just assume you should know it by my actions but for me on the other hand, I would need some reassurance from my partner. As somebody with a 10th house stellium, including Mars, Moon, & Venus with Aries on the midheaven-if somebody fails to openly display their feelings for me, I'm gone. I FEEL like he's controlling his emotions for some reason unknown to me. Sometimes the experience in this house is painful other times it's purely magical. The element of secrecy makes their relationship intense and glamorous. Thanks for being so detailed. I don't know. Sent 3-5 times a week. he still talks with a kind voice which i hate of being him a hypocrite.what does the whole thing means? But, he is the one who has been a sort of confessional from the very beginning. hes not so emotional with words but he is in action. If you Love this person, let destiny take its course and have faith in divine/universal timing. It is a great placement in synastry, of course depending on other aspects to the degree. Im terribly afraid of this 12th house. He seem to know all about me even i don't tell or exposed my darkest psyche to him. The North Node represents our souls goal in this l Mercury in Partners 1st house You will inspire easy communication with your partner. This is the area of life devoted to spirituality, imagination, confining institutions, and secret enemies, the hidden side of life; in synastry, the impact of one person's planets on another's 12th House indicates the manner in which they affect their spiritual experience and either promote or retard the other's own self-undoing. The 12th house is karmic for both for good or not so good both come through this house.:). In fact, I was his spiritual company for more than the twenty years we spent apart. The 12th house and Neptune can be very painful, the lingering kind. I'm not about mind-games or double messages or emotional landmines waiting in the trenches. Without remorse, without emotional pain, without what ifs. Now i understand the mystery of the house that touch our soul. I just want to kiss his cheek and heal his wounds. HI, ELSA!! This house offers the opportunity to discover these things so we can let them go and live a life with less baggage and more happiness. Here are the examples i want to share with you. If neither one has any issues like these then the relationship does not need to take on such a heavy role and can then be about many of the positive aspects of this house. Gah! Now it doesn't happen that often but I can say that as the house person, I'm almost always affected by someone who has Venus in my 12th and if it aspects some of my planets. Venus trine Pluto, sun and Saturn trine. The 12th house Synastry: Love behind the scenes. Not in a bad way though. I forgot to say my venus is in his first house and when we met it was like that scene from twilight where Edward walks into the cafeteria in slow motion, the wind was blowing (indoors!) He has trouble verbalizing his feelings but he said he's always been like that. It ended when I invited him to my fathers birthday and he just couldnt do it (insert childhood issue here). Each person shares secrets, and even unconsciously. Here is a formula: Unless a guy acknowledges his feelings for you within a month, maybe 2 months (or 10+ dates) of serious dating openly, plainly, simply, without subtext, without mindgames or alternate plan Bs in his head,drop him. I am not saying there is not a spiritual/psychic or unconscious connection but don't assume he has other feelings than what he has clearly said. Problem is that I feel like I know his soul. You will find yourself smitten to this house person. or I fail? Such a mystical house - offers so much yet sometime so little. Hes not cold at all. Mars in 12th house plus all the unease Im feeling is scary and terrifying. One thing for sure, 12th house relationships are Karmic. The house person will feel good with the Venus person and they will share a psychic connection that is quite powerful. However, it was my Venus in his h12th. His response have a huge impact upon me. All we can do is hope for something good in the future! The Ascendant person feels an unconditional love when the other one is around. I don't know if I am able to, honestly.This really feels like karmic bond. He shows me he cares with actions and he has told me twice he is in love with me. Same here. I would be very interested as always in hearing about any findings or further experience or information you can conjur up! Some are just hung up on their exes. And I do, I don't ever want to judge or criticize him. This is especially true with the Moon here but other planets as well. An Unaspected Venus in synastry has a different slant. The Venus would be read as being in your first house since the conjunction is so close to your Ascendant. Yes i do believe it possible to work even if you have not physically met as crazy as that sounds, my experience with this house has shown it to be a very magical house, that has roots in the past. I really have no idea whats going on but we have crazy placements, if anyone wants to discuss further please let me know!! His mars is in my 12th house. You WILL find an emotionally available, decent man if you dont settle on lesser models. It's like the cuddling is saved for when the other really needs it. At least in a romantic situation, often what happens is that the house person doesn't "feel" or has a hard time seeing the love of the Venus person. Hi Aida! Although my guy is very vulnerable with me as well, he is still more controlled than I, in the sharing of deeper things (probably his Scorp rising). Hi, Name Again. Ill blink and its 1am. It means he needs to work through then and the only way to do this is to, effectively lie to you, so he can havevtgecspace he needs to work through his issues. The Venus person gets all silly lovestruck everytime they see their object of desire. Look for hard aspects from his venus to your planets. Horoscope, dating, astrology, forecast, relationships | 12andus A Venus in the 12th House man is a sweet, gentle, kind of person who likes to help both people and animals. which is terribly disturbing for anyone who doesnt want to face things. And ever since we started communicating I have that strange feeling of telepathic connection between us.Is it possible that this 12th house influence works so strong with people who never met in person?We don't know each other in RL and I don't know how that is going to work out when we meet.My Pluto square his Sun/Mars kazimi conjunction, within 0 degrees. He could not and cannot change . I can feel him, seeing many good things in him that he never aware. Someone help Ive done so much research on this but I was with this guy for like a year and then he ghosted me, disappeared deleted all social media, but I still dream about him and think about him frequently and its been 3 years.

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